narayama bushiko

Have you seen the 1983 movie Narayama Bushiko directed by Shohei Imamura? Quite a few years ago I saw it in NYC at the Carnegie Theater on 57th Street (no longer standing), and was completely unprepared for that kind of story. To say that it left a strong impression on me is an understatement. At least once a year I remember it. I don’t know why that movie hit me so hard. Maybe because it tends to force the viewer to see situations in new ways, and with a new understanding. At the end of the movie, in one way or another, the heart’s core has been reached.

The movie is about people, their village, and its poverty. It’s about one family in particular. Life at that time, Japan in the 19th century, was unimaginably harsh in that village, and for villagers to survive, babies had to die, and people who had reached the age of 70 had to go to the top of Mount Narayama to wait for death – alone. During the movie the viewer sees and feels the unbearable hardship of life then. It’s awfully hard to be a witness to life lived under those circumstances, and that’s the reason the movie is easily remembered years later.

Is the story beautiful? When all is said and done, yes, it is. Many people think so; though many people think it’s not. That’s true about many things in life, isn’t it?

randy pausch

A human being who knew how to live and die passed away on Friday, 25 July. What can one say about a man who was told he had a short time to live, and took whatever time he had, and, not only gave it to his wife and three children, but gave it to all of us. In the process, he taught us, and showed us, what it means to “let go”. Thank you Randy Pausch.

He and his family were recently interviewed at their home. The cameras followed them, and when questions were asked, he answered all of them with a serene look on his face – the one he always seemed to have.

What a gift he gave his children; what an example he was to the world.

On Monday, 28 July and Tuesday, 29 July “Good Morning America” will have a tribute to him. And on Tuesday, 29 July “Primetime” will have “The Last Lecture: A Celebration of Life” at 10pm. www.first30days.com “Randy Pausch Passes Away”.

“Calmness of mind is one of the beautiful jewels of wisdom. It is the result of long and patient effort in self-control. Its presence is an indication of ripened experience, and of a more-than-ordinary knowledge of the laws and operations of thought.” – “The Wisdom of James Allen” 5 Classic Works Combined Into One

Viv

On 24 July 2007 my cousin Viv died. She was a force to reckon with. I never thought she’d be the first of my generation to die. She usually said what was on her mind, eyes looking up sideways, a slight smile at the corners of her mouth, waiting for a response after she said something that was contrary to what you were thinking, She was sharp;  she was a thinker, and she had more ideas than she knew what to do with.

I remember many stories, this is the one that comes to mind now – the year Viv died, we were in a furniture store when a song filled the room; it was a song that clutched at both of us, as we listened we noticed a nearby couch and automatically walked over to it. We sat talking about a few experiences relating to the sentiments in the song. Then, out of the blue, we began crying – heartily. Then we began laughing – just as heartily. We walked out refreshed, renewed and raring to go. I can’t remember why we were in that furniture store. Perhaps that was the reason. Therapy at its best.

There were wonderful, wacky, fun, moments; there were tense, uncomfortable, not-so-fun-moments. Though whatever was happening there was a trust, a love, a friendship that could never be dissolved.

Viv took her last breath knowing she was well-loved; she was at peace. She spent her last week at a hospice and shortly before she died, her bed was rolled into the garden where family and friends had gathered to say goodbye and give her a last hug. Wow! The energy on that day in the garden was felt by everyone. Love and peace is what it was all about.

That’s the way I want to leave this fascinating world – with love and peace surrounding me.

shopping, learning, seeking, enjoying, changing

Together let’s see what’s offered at these sites:

www.coolhunting.com

www.careofthesoul.net

www.barkforpeace.com

www.sound-oasis.com

www.dialogueproject.net

www.aiht.edu

www.andystatman.org

www.visionarrow.com

www.markliskey.com

www.globaladventure.us

www.thesophiainstitute.org

www.heartwoodinstitute.com

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If I were to begin life again,
I should want it just as it was;
only I would open my eyes a little more. -Jules Renard

Around the corner there may wait
a new road or a secret gate. – J.R.R. Tolkien

being yoga – omega institute and eastwestnyc

“Attend the incredible workshops, lectures and classes the country’s top teachers will be offering” – on 10-13 October 2008, there’ll be a Being Yoga weekend conference in New York City at the Sheraton New York Hotel, 811 7th Avenue at 53rd Street, brought to us by a partnership between Omega Institute and EastWest NYC. The keynote speaker will be Russell Simmons. www.eastwestnyc.com I was surprised to hear East West closed. They underwent about a year of renovation, and then opened for such a brief period of time. What happened?

To register: www.eomega.org/omega/conferences

tai chi

It was in Rittenhouse Square Park in Philadelphia that I noticed someone gracefully practicing Tai Chi. I stood to the side trying to not stare. Stare I did, however, as his movements were easy to watch — hands seemed to float delicately and powerfully, and torso and legs moved with ease. I wanted to stay and watch and forget about the things I was supposed to be doing.

I began learning Tai Chi with a video and then a CD — for sure it’s not the best way to learn. The positions feel really good though and there’s a quiet pleasure in doing them. I’ve barely begun, but I have a feeling this form of exercise is the right one for me. The basics are learned, and then integrated. The positions “tone muscle, firm the body, and enhance flexibility.” Eventually, I want to find a Tai Chi instructor. First though I’ll try to understand a little of the how-to of it and try to loosen up a bit.

Have you found what you enjoy doing?

www.taoist.org
www.nccam.nih.gov/health/taichi

vegetables and fruits – organic or not

This was on aol’s site, July 2008: The Environmental Working Group doesn’t necessarily advocate organic, but does suggest that consumers be aware of the following non-organic foods having the highest pesticide levels. They are: peaches, celery, nectarines, strawberries, cherries, peas, imported grapes, spinach, lettuce, and potatoes.

writers, words, and beautiful sentences found in books

The English language is fraught with delightful words and ways of stringing a sentence together. It’s a great language – a full and fun language – and can be a neat hobby. In a thick Clairefontaine notebook I like writing words, and the way they were used in a particular sentence in a book.

The word miasma, e.g., has a completely different meaning than what I had thought. I’m glad I never had occasion to use it. It’s a pretty-sounding word, isn’t it? I’m also glad that I looked up its meaning on www.dictionary.com for it states: “mi as ma 1. Noxious exhalations from putrescent organic matter poisonous effluvia or germs polluting the atmosphere.” Somewhere along my life’s journey the word miasma became unclear in its meaning.

This past 4th July holiday Sumi and I got to talking about books. She asked what I thought of the one she gave me a month ago. And I had to say that I was confused after reading the first two pages, and returned it to the shelf. She said, keep reading it; it’s a really good story and it’s well-written, and yes, the first few pages are somewhat confusing. She said she really liked the way the author uses words. So when Sumi and I went to Barnes & Noble the following day, I recognized the depth of her enjoyment of “the post-birthday world” when she saw the book on one of the tables Barnes & Noble places around its store. She smiled and pointed to it, and what I saw on her face was a remembering of the pure enjoyment she had in reading it. And she said that one day she’d read it again, just not yet. It’s then that I realized that Sumi wasn’t ever going to get tired of asking whether I’ve read that book. With that in mind, when I finish reading Extra Virgin by Annie Hawes I’ll gladly give “the post birthday world” by Lionel Shriver a whirl.

Annie Hawes also has a way with words. I find Extra Virgin plodding, but in a way I don’t at all mind. The words, the flow of sentences, is delicious, as is the writer’s description of just about everything before her.

Now Sumi read Empire Falls by Richard Russo, but didn’t see the made for tv movie. I saw the movie, but didn’t read the book. One day she said, “This book is very good, mom, do you want to read it? You’ll like it.” I said, “No, I don’t like reading a book after I’ve watched a movie based on it.” She said, “Well, take the book.” I did. The next time, and a few other times, Sumi asked, “Did you read Empire Falls, mom?” I hesitatinghly replied, “No, not yet.” Soon after that conversation, I got the book off its shelf and began to read it. Lo and behold, it was so well-written and engrossing that, in no time at all, I’d read it. And so, I ask myself, where did, “I don’t like reading a book after I’ve watched a movie based on it” come from? Empire Falls – wonderful reading.

A writer who uses words not commonly used, or words that delight the senses and make a reader want to stop and write them in a notebook for future use, or uses words that open a new way of understanding and appreciating a language, who expresses thoughts that the reader feels on different levels, and, at the same time, creates a great story, is a writer whose book will be appreciated for a long time after the book is read.

gregg braden

I picked up the July 2008 FREE Wisdom Magazine www.wisdom-magazine.com at Whole Foods, and in it Publisher Mary Arsenault is interviewing NY Times Bestselling author Gregg Bragen who wrote: The Isaiah Effect, The God Code, The Divine Matrix: Bridging Time, Space, Miracles and Belief. His last book is “now a finalist for the best new science book of 2007.” His newest book is The Spontaneous Healing of Belief. I read the interview three times – once in my apartment, traveling to Brooklyn, and on the return trip to Phila – because powerful words were spoken and I wanted to deeply feel and understand everything that was said.

Gregg Braden and Dr. Darren Weissman will be at the Hilton Philadelphia Airport, 4509 Island Avenue on 1-3 August; the subject is: Recreate! Your Life, Your Health, Our World! www.sacredspaces.org

The August issue of Wisdom will be featuring SACRED JOURNEYS & RETREATS. It sounds good to me. Sounds good to you?

“Our left brain needs to understand why it’s possible for us to affect our world. We know that the world around us is energy and made of electrical and magnetic fields. What our own science has found within the last two or three years is that the human heart is the strongest generator of electrical fields within the human body, about a hundred times stronger than the brain, and it’s the strongest generator of magnetic fields in the body – about 5000 times stronger than the brain. So when we create a feeling in our hearts the way the ancients told us to – feelings of appreciation, gratitude, healing, love and compassion – what we are really doing is creating very powerful waves of electrical and magnetic energy inside our heart that floods our body with these fields and it extends beyond our bodies in the world around us. And that’s how we influence the physical world around us – we can literally rearrange the atoms of physical matter through these fields if we learn to focus and hone this language.” – Gregg Braden

apex, move over; boltbus is here

Apex Bus (New Century is not worth mentioning) has gotten a bit sloppy these past few months. Dirty buses are the norm, keeping passengers waiting for long periods, either outside the bus or inside, happens too often. No reason is ever given. People put up with the staff’s rudeness, and with the dirty, smelly buses, and now with broken seats here and there, because it’s a very cheap and fast ride – $20 to NYC from Phila and back. Most passengers just want to get to their destination as quickly as possible. But cheap when it’s tied to bad service goes just so far. Some of the websites communicating Apex’s, let’s say, mistakes, are very entertaining. I’m getting a feeling that the game is over for Apex – at least the way they’ve been playing it. I bet a lot of Phila students are glad about that.

Enter Greyhound with BoltBus. Lawrence, a friend from Manhattan, mentioned it today. He always knows when there’s something new, something better. Greyhound’s BoltBus goes to Boston, NYC, Philadelphia, and Washington. It’s cheaper than Apex (yes, passengers are perplexed about the price, and happy), buses are big and clean, and Wi-FI is offered. Greyhound has finally figured out what to do about the competition. One can only hope that it keeps getting better and better. www.boltbus.com

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